FEW THINGS ONE HAS TO STOP IMMEDIATELY!

   There are a number of things one needs to stop to grow immensely in whatsoever one does, and, to actually make a difference in this world where everyone seems to copy each other, one has to follow these few things.
1. You need to put a stop to comparing yourself to others. Your mates might have made it than you, it is normal, just push yourself to do more, not forgetting your purpose in life. Everyone has gone through and is going through some processes to make it, so, if you haven’t started your journey to stardom, start now.  Focus on your growth, and, let it be in alignment with your purpose. Your time would definitely come.
2. Quit pleasing people, stop doing things you really don’t want to do, let your NO be NO; your YES   be YES, and, let people know you for who you really are. It is normal to put yourself in others' shoes, but, let it not be at the detriment of your own growth, love your neighbor as yourself not more than yourself. 
3. Stop giving excuses, when you make a mistake, admit it. Mistakes are meant to be made, no one is perfect. Also, stop procrastinating (everyone is guilty of this, we all just have to checkmate it), thereby, resorting to an excuse. Do the right thing at the right time.
4. Quit not believing in yourself and stop dwelling in your past. You might get to achieve more than what you weren’t able to achieve in your past today. Your past doesn’t determine your future.  You are a spec, quit reasons you cannot and start seeing reasons you can. If you don’t believe in yourself, who would?
5. Stop surrounding yourself with toxic people, toxic environments, and toxic thoughts. Your mindset has to be positive to pursue your dreams. Surrounding yourself with toxic people will do you no good, and, one might end up blaming others for their misfortune, so, to avoid this, avoid toxicity.
6. Stop running from your problems, confront them, tackle them; challenges are meant to be overcome to make us grow.  Meanwhile, one has to stop worrying about things one has no control over, it’s difficult, but, important. The only way one can overcome that is how one responds to them; positively or negatively.
7. Lastly, one has to stop being ungrateful.  Express gratefulness and a heart of gratitude in any situation you find yourself.
     I hope you came across this piece when you needed it the most.

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