Grey writes

   There are a number of things one needs to stop to grow immensely in whatsoever one does, and, to actually make a difference in this world where everyone seems to copy each other, one has to follow these few things. 1. You need to put a stop to comparing yourself to others. Your mates might have made it than you, it is normal, just push yourself to do more, not forgetting your purpose in life. Everyone has gone through and is going through some processes to make it, so, if you haven’t started your journey to stardom, start now.  Focus on your growth, and, let it be in alignment with your purpose. Your time would definitely come. 2. Quit pleasing people, stop doing things you really don’t want to do, let your NO be NO; your YES   be YES, and, let people know you for who you really are. It is normal to put yourself in others' shoes, but, let it not be at the detriment of your own growth, love your neighbor as yourself not more than yourself.  3. Stop giving...

I have come to realize that not everyone in your circle presently has to be in your circle forever.  Sometimes, to actually move forward consistently, you need to evaluate your network. Check it, check what some persons in your circle actually bring to the table, this is far from hate, really, not everyone has to be with you on your journey to stardom.  If really, you want to take charge of your own future, then, you decide what to do about it yourself and who should be with you on that journey. Give less attention to an individual who adds no value to you and your friendship. Valueless relationships and friendships should take none of your time, time is golden, and it waits for no one. Evaluating your circle has to do with promoting, demoting, subtracting, and adding. Your creator has given your life to you so you can be the CEO, be in charge of it. Do not give anybody the right to drive your life for you. I see an individual’s life as a vehicle that should be driven by that ...

Never get saddened when you are rejected. Rejection should be seen as God's protection. If you get rejected somewhere somehow; God hasn’t placed you to be there. Don’t beat yourself up when you get rejected, be thankful. Something greater is coming